Where were you when I needed you
where were you when I was alone
where were you when I asked for you
and now you critisize?
and now you say I got it wrong
and now you say that I should change
and now you say I shouldnt be me
but where were you when I needed you

Sometime later in response to the questions asked back then...

same place you always were
alone
I didnt want you to hear my voice
because you have problems too
everybody wants to blame
wants somebody to take away the pain
in fear of the reflection
maybe I didnt need you to be anywhere but where you were.